
đ Pretend Play and Big Feelings: Best play ideas and toys for Imaginative Storytellers
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Some children turn a spoon into a spaceship. Others reenact entire movies before breakfast. These little minds live at the crossroads of wonder and wisdomâand their gift? They play stories that often reflect what they canât yet say.
If your child speaks in characters, narrates their world aloud, or invites you into tea parties with invisible dragons, you may be raising an Imaginative Storyteller.
And thatâs a beautiful thing.
⨠What Is an Imaginative Storyteller?
These children thrive in the world of âwhat if.â They blur the line between pretend and possibleâacting out bold adventures, emotional moments, or purely magical nonsense. This style of play isnât just fun; itâs their way of:
- Exploring feelings they donât yet have words for
- Rehearsing real-world situations in a safe space
- Expressing creativity, identity, and empathy
Storytellers are often emotionally intuitive, socially curious, and fiercely original. While their narratives may seem wild or silly on the surface, theyâre often rooted in deep thinking.
𧸠Signs Youâre Raising a Storyteller
- They speak aloud while playing, often in character voices
- They assign personalities to toys, pets, or random objects
- Their games center around scenarios rather than rules
- They dress up dailyânot just for parties
- They ask âwhat if?â or âcan we pretendâŚâ multiple times a day
- Their pretend stories can involve real emotional themes like fear, friendship, or fairness
đ§ś What They Need from Us
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 đFreedom to be dramatic
Theyâre not exaggeratingâtheyâre exploring. Let their stories stretch wide and weird. Thereâs value in the volcano picnic. -
¡       Witnessing without correcting đ
Itâs tempting to âfixâ the story (âNo honey, cats donât bark!â), but try instead:
âThatâs interesting! Tell me more about your barking cat.â
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¡       𤲠Tools to extend the world
Their imagination has no limitâbut their props help it come alive. Offer open-ended materials that can play multiple roles. -
¡       đ Emotional reflection
If your childâs story includes a lost bunny or scary monster, it might reflect their inner world. Later, gently reflect:
âYour bunny character seemed a little lonely. I wonder if that felt familiar to you.â
đ Toys That Inspire Big Stories
Here are a few favorites from MaJolies that fuel open-ended, narrative-rich play:
Perfect for preparing breakfast with friendsâreal or imaginary. Great for language-building, sequencing, and role negotiation.
Helps kids express themes of bravery, responsibility, and helping others. Can also inspire powerful conversations around safety.
- đď¸ Wooden Fruit Store Set
Excellent for cooperative play and social scenarios. Think: shopkeeper, customer, sibling manager, or sneaky fruit thief (all played by one imaginative kid !)
Explore our entire pretend play selection.
đŠ Pro tip: Include scarves, old bags, and clipboards as dress-up extras. The more undefined the prop, the more possibilities it holds
đŞThe Emotional Heart of Pretend Play
Imaginative play isnât âjust cuteââitâs therapeutic.
Through pretend stories, your child works through everything from sibling jealousy to sensory overload, from social puzzles to triumphs at school. It gives them agency in an unpredictable world.
And when they invite you in? Accept the role. Be the confused dragon or the tea-drinking owl. Thereâs connection in those roles, and your presence tells them:
âI see you. I love how your mind works.â
⨠Final Thought
If youâve ever sat cross-legged on the floor as your child declared, âYouâre the baby now, and Iâm the doctor who also flies rockets,â then youâve witnessed storytelling in its most unfiltered, brilliant form.
Celebrate it. Support it. And always leave time for one more story.
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Reference: Play personalities framework by Dr. Stuart Brown helps explain how kids can engage in unique ways in activities. We can learn from it to make both play and work more enjoyable for our kids. https://nifplay.org/books/play-how-it-shapes-the-brain-opens-the-imagination-and-invigorates-the-soul/
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